Is it your partner, your children, your parents, your boss (you may laugh but bosses certainly have some degree of control over your life), a creator of all things or yourself? May I suggest that the last two are the same. Without getting into religion or spirituality, you alone create your life. While you cannot control what happens to you, you can control how you respond to it.
People say I have this energy, this glow and I firmly believe it’s because I don’t have the burden of bad debt. Sure my house is small by today’s standards but it’s fully paid off. My vegetables are starting to grow and I feel fantastic! I don’t need the big city office and I’m doing more for the environment by working from home. This mental health helps when things don’t go according to plan.
So do you have healthy coping mechanisms? Do you talk lovingly to yourself, your spirit or soul, and support yourself as you would a friend? Indeed your financial situation improves when you do. When you realise that your inner passion, your positivity and purpose will get you through, you don’t need to spend money to feel good. When you connect with something greater than yourself, you’ll want to enjoy all that this wonderful life has to offer. You won’t want to spend time spending on material possessions. Can you see that by connecting with yourself how will you see your life improve?
Til next xxxx